Biarkan Cinta Menyapa

Setelah mengelana jauh mengusung risalah, marilah sejenak meng-upgrade cinta agar selalu hadir menghiasi rumah tangga kita. Cinta akan menajdi ruh yang menggelorakan jiwa. Cinta pula yang menggerakkan kita. Dan muara cinta dalam rumah tanggalah tempat hati berlabuh memperbaharui energi. Cinta adalah energi yang senantiasa harus di charge.

Tapi cinta dan kasih sayang tidaklah hadir dengan sendirinya. Perlu kesungguhan usaha serta kerjasama untuk mengahdirkannya. Dari mana cinta bermula ? Tentu harus ada proaktif dan inisiatif dari masing-masing pihak, entah suami ataukah istri. jangan biarkan keluarga hambar tanpa cinta.

Dalam sebuah rumah tangga, cinta diwujudkan oleh masing-masing pihak kepada pihak lain. Dia adalah daya tarik yang merekatkan satu sama lain dan mengikatkannya. Cinta adalah perasaaan internal yang timbul dari anggapan baik terhadap sifat, watak dan akhlak pihak lain, satu kecondongan bersifat naluriah kepada dimensi kecantikan, kebersihan secara fisik dan etis terhadap partnernya.

Dalam sebuah ikatan pernikahan, kasih sayang ibarat garam untuk sayuran, air untuk tanaman, air aquarium bagi ikan, dan kalori untuk menggerakkan badan. Sebagaimana makanan yang tidak berasa tanpa garam, tiada kehidupan tanaman tanpa air, maka kehidupan rumah tangga tidak akan dapat dirasakan dan tidak ada jaminan akan langgeng dan lestari tanpa adanya kasih sayang.

Nilai kasih sayang akan terwujud saat terekspresi kepada pihak lain sehingga merasakan wujudnya dan selalu berupaya untuk mengembangkannya. Sebesar apapun cinta yang tersimpan dalam hati ketika pemiliknya tidak berusaha mengekspresikan, ia bagai bunga melati yang tidak lagi mewangi, sehingga menajdikan hubungan perkawinan sekedar hubungan formal yang kering, yang kehilangan kesegaran dan semangat hidup. Akibatnya, merebaklah kejenuhan di sekitarnya, berkecamuklah kegelisahan disekelilingnya.

Seorang wanita membutuhkan sesuatu yang dapat meringankan kepenatan tugas rumahtangganya. Pun seorang lelaki membutuhkan sesuatu yang dapat meringankan beban kerja dan tugas darinya. Mereka berdua membutuhkan sesuatu yang dapat meringankan kesedihan dan deritanya, sesuatu yang dapat meringankan tekanan beban tersebut, membutuhkan nuansa disana masih ada orang yang memberi perhatian dan memahami perasaannya.

Semoga cinta hadir dalam rumah tangga kita dan memberikan energi dahsyat untuk berkarya, berprestasi dihadapanNya..

ummu za

( Untuk sebuah rumah tangga yang merasa belum memiliki cinta : saudaraku, jangan pernah katakan lagi : " aku belum bisa mencintainya " . Sesungguhnya Allah sudah memberikan bibit cinta itu didalam hatimu untuknya..maka pupuk dan siramlah terus agar terwujud cinta itu...mulailah mencintainya secara bersahaja....)

[Urgent] Seruan Vatikan untuk Indonesia

INDONESIA Catholics Urged To Participate In Election As Voter Regristration Deadline Nears.

JAKARTA (UCAN) -- With the deadline for voter registration approaching, Jakarta archdiocese has issued a letter urging Catholics to participate in the upcoming general election.

The 2009 general election is near. Participating in this general election is our right and responsibility as citizens and our calling as the faithful," says the letter signed by Vicar General Father Yohanes Subagyo, highest archdiocesan official after the archbishop.

The archdiocese directed its 60 parishes to read out the letter, "Motivating Jakarta Archdiocese's Catholics to participate in the 2009 General Election," at weekend Masses on Sept. 13 and 14, and on Sept. 20 and 21. This is the first such letter the local Church has issued.

Sept. 26 is the last day eligible citizens can register to vote in the April 9, 2009, general election, for which the General Election Commission has approved 38 political parties, some of them religion-based. It also designated a nine-month campaign period that began on July 8.

"If we exercise our right to vote in this general election, we too will determine eligible leaders we can trust to govern for the next five years," the Church statement says. "But if we do not vote, we give an opportunity to certain parties we might not side with to take care of this state."

Church people say they fear activists from Islamist parties will try to prevent non-Muslim voters from casting ballots.

The letter informs Catholics they can register by sending a text message to a number provided by the local general election commission. It also tells them they can check if their names are on the voters' list by looking at their neighborhood community announcement board or checking with the local registration authority.

Parish priests and other Catholics who spoke with UCA News say they welcome the letter.

Father Kaitanus Saleky of Christ the Savior Church in Slipi, West Jakarta, said he had the letter read out in his church during Masses on the set days, and also would have it read out at neighborhood prayer meetings.

"I will keep telling my parishioners about this in my homilies. I am also planning to organize a seminar to inform parishioners about eligible candidates," the Immaculate Heart of Mary priest said. He suggested that Catholics get as much information as possible about all election candidates.

Father Petrus Mujiono from St. Stephen Church in Cilandak, South Jakarta, said he had the letter posted on his parish's website and announcement board, and in its bulletin.

The Sacred Heart priest asserted that "Catholics are obliged to choose candidates who truly fight for the common good." He added, "They should choose according to their conscience and never let candidates' promises influence them."

Natalis Situmorang, chairperson of Pemuda Katolik (Catholic youth), agreed. He pointed out that if Catholics do not vote, the Prosperous Justice Party might come to power in the Jakarta area. He acknowledged the party includes people who are not Muslims but said "many of its members support Shari'a (Islamic law)."

The organization plans a national meeting in mid-November to educate young Catholics on political matters. For this, he said, "we will work together with Catholic organizations such as Catholic Union of University Students of the Republic of Indonesia (PMKRI), Indonesian Catholic Society Forum, Catholic Solidarity for Democracy in Indonesia and Catholic Women of the Republic of Indonesia. Indonesian citizens are eligible to vote from the age of 17.

PMKRI chairperson Tommy Jematu asserted, "It is we who choose the leaders of this nation, leaders who should be committed to developing society." He too suggested the archdiocese inform Catholics about all candidates in the general election.

Meanwhile, Chris Siner Key Timu, a Catholic politician, told UCA News on Sept. 18 that while he welcomes the Church's letter, "it is the right of each Catholic to vote or not to vote."

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